Friday, July 24, 2009

I think I am very different from my sister in many ways.. But actually I notice that I am similar to her in some ways too..

I just had some "argument" with her.. Its not actually an argument, its just both of us trying to put our point across. and when we believe in something, we cant accept whatever others say and we forcefully try to get our point across.. but (prob) bcos we are both lousy at language, we cant get what we really want to say across, we end up feeling frustrated and upset and just stop talking..

But I have realised this problem of myself quite a while ago. its bad bcos i become very narrow minded and my tone i used in putting my point across isnt v nice too.. I've been trying to be receptive..

so during my "arguement" with her just now, I'm just trying to put up another side of the story to her.. but she become so protective of what her opinion that she started raising her voice and that kinda of piss me off.. hello, i'm not even saying that you are wrong, i'm just trying to say that probably there is another way to look at it..

but her act reminds me of myself.. I am probably still like that sometimes.. but I'll change. slowly.......

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